Height

Lately I came to know of 2 guys that are really tall in my "people list". I mean beside ang-moh, they are really the tallest so far.

I was so excited, a bit too over-excited maybe (hope they don't find me weird and awkward). One of them ask me, "how come you like to stand next to tall people? Usually most girls don't like standing next to tall people"

I just answered him, "it's because I like tall people".

Nah.. That was pretty lame. I know. It's just simply because I always wanted to be taller, but my height just stop right at 158cm. I wish it could be another 10 cm more. But that never happen.

So.. that's why I like standing next to tall people. : )

And.. these 2 guys are really tall, taller than my brothers, and cousin brothers.

Just take a look at the photos below

With QX (This is with heels)

This is without heels. See... Best combination of Tall&Short

With Kenny. I think it's with heels too.

and... when I'm standing in between them, I call it, KLCC with a bridge.

Yup

This is how it looks like ~

And this was my first impression of these 2:

They are actually the Heng Dai (兄弟) for my friend's wedding. They stepped out and stood before the groom arrived with their hands folded. They just look like 2 very tall and giant security guards. Of course, and they look kinda strong. (which mean, I went with full force for all the torturing games since they look strong).

Once I saw these two before the others (total of 6 heng dai), I turned my back and told my Ji Mui, "Great! They look very strong, so we can go all out!!!"

It was nice knowing them.

Everyone Is Equally Important

I believe everyone know the saying of:

"A big machine needs small screws to work, if not it will fail".

Same thing apply to human or in a group / community / organization / corporation. Each and everyone in that particular group is essentially important. Everyone is equally important. We can't get the work done without each other.

So what makes you think that you are darn important, and you could treat others without any respect?!

Everyone has their own deadline to catch, everyone has their WIP to complete, everyone has their own KPI to chase.

So what makes you different than the others?

You think that the group can't live without you. That's what make you different than the others.

When one speak to you with respect, do the same. Pay back the respect.

You want to be nasty, by all means go ahead.

Just be careful though, once you step on me accidently, you will never know when I will react back. I've always armed myself with a shield, you never know that you will be hit by the shield when you try to hit me.

You never know the what is running underneath a still river.

I'm Yours

Saw this on youtube. He is really lovely.

With his itchy nose.. hahahahahah!!!

無奈

無奈，尤其是被捲入別人的事情。

重頭到尾我都沒說別人的不是，對方幹嘛要覺得很受傷?

只有一句 － 無奈，還是無奈

相士說對了，我還是少說話吧，免得被人覺得我別有居心

It's the same

I realized we human always like to complicate simple things.

We like to torture ourselves most of the time, and we enjoy being tortured. Especially, mentally.

hmm..

I wonder why.

If you know something might hurt you, why still go for it?

Curiosity maybe?

Or maybe you just couldn't let it go.

Believe me, when you learn to let it go, that's when you start living your life.

Quote:

“When you haven't forgiven those who've hurt you, you turn back against your future. When you do forgive, you start walking forward.”

— Tyler Perry

I like it very much.

That is exactly how I feel right now, and actions speak louder than words. If you know me, you should know that I've forgive and forget.

Simply because, I'm walking.

Weird.. Isn't It?

Was chatting with my girl friend.

She told me bout how weird it is that she pop a question to this guy and the guy ignore it for few times till a point where he actually quit MSN once she asked that. That guy is married btw.

After quite awhile, I asked her: "Did you have something over him before?"

She answered me, "I wouldn't use past tense for it."

Hmm.. I'm not here to judge. Honestly. I'm a sinner myself. Who am I to judge.

Just that, it's weird isn't it. Just imagine the scenario below:

1. You didn't make a move and you sort of pair that guy up with his wife.

2. You attended their wedding.

3. You are in a relationship now.

It's weird when...

You like that guy, and you still pair him up with some one else. Perhaps he is having a "happily ever after" moment with his family now and here you are still caring of him. Maybe a little too much, a little over the line.

It's weird when...

You are in a relationship now.. and yet you still thought of the other guy. Isn't it a bit unfair to your current partner? There must be a reason for everything. When you claim that your current partner might not love you enough, have you ever thought of the other way? Perhaps, you wasn't really loving him the way you thought you are.

It's weird when...

You like to complicate simple stuff. You like to endure yourself into pain. You seems to let yourself sink deeper and deeper into torments.

It's even weirder when...

(To me) You just don't know how to lift yourself up from all those mess that you created. You seems to like being in a mess, one after another. Yet, you look up at someone thinking that I can't be like him/her, because s/he always know what they want.

You just got to LEARN what you want.

How to do that??

From your mistakes. If you never learn from your mistakes, you will forever be in that mess.

Just another cycle.

Maxis Service Center

Yeah.. when you haven't get any product in Malaysia, the promoter will tell you,

"Don't worry miss. There won't be any problem, even if they do, you could always come to our service center to get it solve".

Trust me. Technical service support in Malaysia still have TONS of room for improvement.

Just take a look at our lovely Maxis Service Center. On average, if you need to get technical support for your broadband, iPhone, BlackBerry, you would need to wait for at least, read properly... A T L E A S T 4 5 MINUTES!

After 45 minutes, maybe you would only be attended for bout 5 minutes. They will either tell you, your phone is not ready or I don't know.

W-H-Y? Why do you need to go to the shop for that freaking 5 minutes?!

Because, you can't check your status through the phone or online. You could only check your repair / replace status personally. and.. best part is, you can't call the service center to check the status because they don't have enough man power to attend the customers in the shop, forget bout the phone.

Maxis Service Center love the personal touch. They love to see their customers face-to-face. They like their staff to be screwed face-to-face. They love their staff so much to a point where they prefer their customers scolding and F***k their staff face-to-face.

And.. I must say, their staff loves Maxis customers too. Because, they could always talk to you with a smile on their face. So professional.

So professional to a point where even though they don't know what is wrong or what is your phone status after you submitted your phone to them for more than a month.

So, you waited for 45 minutes, just for the 5 minutes answer.

Good ya.

Technical support services in Malaysia.

Malaysia Boleh!

1Malaysia.

When will Malaysian realize, Malaysia not always Boleh??!

Gossip Girls

Nope..

This is not about the TV series "Gossip Girls". This post is bout the real gossip girls around us.

We live in the world, in the society, in the community that gossip bout others. From the closet to the furthest:

We talk bout our siblings to our parents behind their back, we gossip bout our relatives behind their back, we talk bout our friends behind their back, we bitch bout our bosses during lunch, we joke bout our colleagues over tea. We laugh at those celebrities that we think they are stupid (especially those leaked their nude photos out [personal note: I think in the west, they do it intentionally to get publicity, but cultural is very different in the east])

Tell me, who never gossip in their life?? I think only Saint could do so. That's why all human being is a sinner.

We pray, we ask for forgiveness each and every time, years after years. Yet, we still gossip and bitch bout others.

What make it even worse is when you bitch bout your colleague in front of your bosses so that you could show that you are better than the rest, to outshine yourself. That I wouldn't call it gossiping, that, technically is "back stabbing".

To me, the universe is simple.

The old karma still rhyme :

"What goes around comes around"

If not, why our religion taught us to be good, why Justin is singing it on his song?

We say, "in God's speed". Well, same case over here, what goes around comes around, like my x-colleague said, God is no longer paying in cash. Karma is turning around faster. God is paying by credit card now.

So when you want to bitch bout others, take a mirror to look at yourself.

Think before you speak.

Another Year Slipping Through My Fingers

2009 is going to end bout another month. Then it would be 2010.

Let's see what I have accomplished over the year. I'm trying to see whether I could gather 26, since I'm 26 this year. Yes, age is a secret for some women, but definitely not me.

1. I've got a job that I enjoying doing, but not quite happy with the benefits.

2. My family had relocated to our new house, and I'm loving it.

3. I got a room for myself with air-con (which I used it everyday except last week, because Malaysia was having 4 seasons last week)

4. I got a bathroom attached to my room, so I don't have to share with others. My room is like a hotel suite. Kudos to my Dad!

5. Back to job, I've been working for a year, and I don't really have intention to leave yet. Improvement! Based on my experience, it usually didn't last for more than a year and a half.

6. Damn. I can't think of anything.

7. Oh, my mac might be going to crash sometime soon. It's time to get a new one!

8. Ahh.. I got my iPhone. The one and only phone that I wanted the most, but it's faulty. Waiting for the warranty to change. Sigh.

9. I've been attending lots of wedding this year. It's my peak. I've wedding ceremonies and dinners to attend on weekly basis for month of December 2009.

10. I wanted to loose some weight, but I didn't. I believe this is accomplishment since I didn't gain much either (OK OK.. I did gained).

11. Since I can't have a drastic change over my figure, I decided to have a new look.

12. Got my hair cut, and everyone been saying that I look better. Younger. Young is good.

13. I wanted to study at NYU, but they rejected me. That doesn't matter, try harder next time.

14. Went to Macau this year. Planing for HK and Bangkok next year.

15. I have 2 weeks of leave, but I don't have any plan for it by end of this year. What a waste!

16. I've been hosting wedding dinners this year, it's a good sign. I love wedding.

17. Always wanted a job that allows me to travel frequently, apparently I got it.

Wow.. It seems like I can't reach 26. Don't really have any accomplishment..

Hmm.. Should do it again by end of 2010. KPI for myself.

心動

好久沒有這種心動的感覺 一看見對方，嘴就自然的往上翹並笑了起來 ...

還蠻好的嘛 ~